Cute or annoying?

When does not being able to do something stop being cute and start being annoying?

I wasn't able to cook until this year when I started to worry that my inability to cook anything might lead to me not being able to find a husband.  I can cook a few dishes now, but I am still nowhere near my mom or grandma's cooking level.

I literally can NOT bowl.  It's really embarrassing. I went bowling with my family yesterday and my total for two games was 102.  I feel like if a guy ever took me bowling as a date he would break up with me because I can't bowl, but my whole family thinks it's really funny that I can't do something!

I feel like grown ups can do SO many different things, and when you can't it is either kinda adorable or really annoying. I hope that my inability to cook and bowl hasn't passed over to annoying from adorable!